Those gay, gay bourgeois bohemians

From Jonah Goldberg: By embrac­ing gay mar­riage and mil­i­tary ser­vice, the bohemian left admits defeat.

[T]he sweep­ing embrace of bour­geois lifestyles by the gay com­mu­nity has been stunning.

Nowhere is this more evident—and per­haps exaggerated—than in pop­u­lar cul­ture. Watch ABC’s Modern Family. The sit­com is sup­posed to be “sub­ver­sive” in part because it fea­tures a gay cou­ple with an adopted daugh­ter from Asia. And you can see why both lib­eral pro­po­nents and con­ser­v­a­tive oppo­nents of gay mar­riage see it that way. But imag­ine you hate the insti­tu­tion of mar­riage and then watch Modern Family’s hard­work­ing bour­geois gay cou­ple through those eyes. What’s being sub­verted? Traditional mar­riage, or some bohemian identity-​​politics fan­tasy of homosexuality?

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Or look at the deci­sion to let gays openly serve in the mil­i­tary through the eyes of a prin­ci­pled hater of all things mil­i­tary. From that per­spec­tive, gays have just been co-​​opted by The Man. Meanwhile, the folks who used Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell as an excuse to keep the mil­i­tary from recruit­ing on cam­puses just saw their argu­ment go up in flames.